Planning an international trip is exciting — and, for many travelers, a little overwhelming. With endless hotels, tours, restaurants, and landmarks vying for your attention, it’s easy to overpack an itinerary or lose sight of what you really want from your adventure. You can’t do everything, so you need to discover the rhythm of travel that fits you best.
Why Pacing Matters
When you first start plotting a trip, it’s tempting to fill every hour. After all, when will you be back? Why not make the most of it? But the richest travel memories rarely come from rushing. They come from having the freedom to notice details: a farmer’s market tucked behind a church, a street musician whose song makes you pause, or a view you linger over long after your coffee is gone.
I’m learning (through plenty of trial and error!) that travel feels better when I allow space in my schedule. I rarely book more than one major activity per day, and I build generous buffers between travel and planned events. Even breakfast can be part of the rhythm — lingering over it rather than grabbing something on the run sets the tone for a calmer morning.
It also makes navigating these new places with travel companions easier. I have a distinct memory from my last trip abroad of Google maps not effectively getting us to where we needed to drop off our rental car, right before a tour we were supposed to take. Being lost + missing something we scheduled = high tensions in the car! These are the experiences I grow from so you don’t have to 😅
Designing Days That Flow
A few intentional choices can transform how you experience a place:
- Treat arrival day gently. After a long flight, aim for a stroll, a relaxed meal, and an early night rather than a packed agenda. You’ll enjoy sightseeing far more once you’re rested.
- Stay more than a night. Give yourself two or three nights in smaller towns or quieter neighborhoods. This lets you enjoy local cafés, evening walks, or even a mid-day nap without the sense you’re “losing time.” Plus, it’s exhausting to pack up and move accommodations every day!
- Cluster activities by location. Instead of zigzagging across a city, group sights within the same area. You’ll save time and keep your energy for what matters.
- Book selectively. Reserve tours or museum entries that are truly important to you, but leave pockets of unscheduled time. This way you can explore something you saw earlier, or spring for that bookstore you read about but weren’t sure you’d have room for.
- Travel light. A streamlined carry-on makes moving between hotels and trains infinitely easier — and frees you to wander down cobblestoned streets without wrestling luggage. Those cobblestones are not easy to roll a ton of luggage over either.
- Budget rest into every day. That might mean a lingering lunch on a shady terrace, an hour with a book in a sunny square, or just people-watching from a park bench. Maybe you’re staying somewhere with a beautiful courtyard or rooftop bar to relax in too.
On a recent trip to Germany, we stayed in two smaller castle hotels in the countryside. Their check-in windows were narrow, so arriving by late afternoon gave us a relaxed deadline to meet. We could wander the grounds, hike nearby trails, and enjoy leisurely dinners without leaving the property. I only wished we’d booked an extra night at each — slowing down was much needed by this point.
Understanding Your Own Style
Before you leave home, spend a little time reflecting on how you want to feel on your trip. Do you crave constant activity, or do you thrive with space to breathe? Are you happier when someone else keeps track of schedules, or do you prefer flexibility?
Some travelers love a “choose-your-own-adventure” approach: a solid framework with the freedom to pivot depending on weather, mood, or a local’s recommendation. Others prefer a guided tour or private driver, where an expert leads the way and the logistics quietly take care of themselves. There’s benefits to both options, and clarity on what fits you best is key.
How a Travel Advisor Brings It Together
This is where working with an advisor can be empowering. My role is part curator, part problem-solver, part guardrail against burnout. Together we can identify what energizes you (and what drains you) so we can build an itinerary that flows naturally.
That might mean mixing a private walking tour with free afternoons to roam, or balancing a week of city museums with a few nights at a rural inn. For those who’d rather not decide on the fly, I can craft a fully guided experience — one where you simply show up and enjoy, knowing every detail is in good hands.
Let’s create a trip that matches your pace and personality, so you can immerse yourself in the journey and return home not just with photos, but with a deeper sense of connection to the world.
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